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Si vous pensez \u00eatre victime de coercition reproductive et que vous recherchez une aide, des conseils ou des ressources communautaires gratuits, confidentiels, sans jugement et favorables au libre choix, veuillez contacter Planned Parenthood Ottawa et nous vous aiderons \u00e0 obtenir les soins dont vous avez besoin.<\/span><\/p>\n [\/et_pb_text][et_pb_button button_url=”https:\/\/ppottawa.ca\/contact-us\/” button_text=”Get in touch with us” _builder_version=”4.19.4″ _module_preset=”default” locked=”off” global_colors_info=”{}”][\/et_pb_button][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=”3_5″ _builder_version=”4.16″ _module_preset=”default” custom_css_main_element=”order: 1;” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_image src=”https:\/\/ppottawa.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/Untitled-design-1.png” _builder_version=”4.19.5″ _module_preset=”default” title_text=”Untitled design (1)” hover_enabled=”0″ sticky_enabled=”0″][\/et_pb_image][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row 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global_colors_info=”{}”]<\/p>\n Le consentement actif est un accord affirmatif, conscient, volontaire, honn\u00eate et continu de participer \u00e0 tout type d\u2019activit\u00e9 sexuelle. Le plaisir, la connexion, l\u2019intimit\u00e9 et l\u2019exploration sexuelle sont fond\u00e9s sur le consentement ! Le consentement peut \u00eatre cr\u00e9atif, ludique, et oui \u2013 SEXY. La confiance est fond\u00e9e sur le consentement actif et la normalisation des moyens de n\u00e9gocier les limites peut mener \u00e0 des exp\u00e9riences sexuelles plus \u00e9panouissantes pour toutes les parties impliqu\u00e9es ! En savoir plus sur le consentement \u00e0 <\/span>https:\/\/www.sexfluent.ca\/consent<\/span><\/a>.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n [\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.19.4″ _module_preset=”default” text_text_color=”#FFFFFF” locked=”off” global_colors_info=”{}”]<\/p>\n [\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ custom_padding_last_edited=”on|phone” _builder_version=”4.19.4″ _module_preset=”default” background_color=”#FFFDFA” module_alignment=”center” min_height=”752.8px” custom_margin=”-12px||-61px|||” custom_padding=”50px||50px||true|false” custom_padding_tablet=”” custom_padding_phone=”” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_row _builder_version=”4.19.4″ _module_preset=”default” custom_padding=”1px|||||” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”4.19.4″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.19.4″ _module_preset=”default” min_height=”55px” custom_margin=”||-20px||false|false” custom_padding=”||0px|||” locked=”off” global_colors_info=”{}”]<\/p>\n <\/p>\n [\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.19.4″ _module_preset=”default” text_text_color=”#00A383″ link_font=”||||on|||#FFFDFA|” link_text_color=”#FFFDFA” header_2_text_color=”#FFFDFA” header_3_text_color=”#FFFDFA” background_color=”#DAE7E3″ width=”100%” max_width=”100%” max_width_tablet=”100%” max_width_phone=”” max_width_last_edited=”on|phone” module_alignment=”left” min_height=”6px” custom_margin=”|14px|25px||false|false” custom_padding=”35px|30px|35px|30px|true|true” border_radii=”on|8px|8px|8px|8px” locked=”off” global_colors_info=”{}”]<\/p>\n Le consentement peut parfois sembler \u00e9vident, cependant, ce \u00e0 quoi ressemble le consentement actif pour toutes les personnes impliqu\u00e9es peut \u00eatre plus complexe. R\u00e8gle d\u2019or \u2013 pour savoir ce que quelqu\u2019un veut vraiment ou comment il se sent, vous devez DEMANDER. Cela doit \u00e9galement \u00eatre dans un espace o\u00f9 quelqu\u2019un ne se sent pas coupable, menac\u00e9 ou contraint d\u2019accepter quelque chose qu\u2019il ne veut pas faire. Ils devraient \u00eatre capables d\u2019exprimer leur h\u00e9sitation, leur inconfort et leurs sentiments honn\u00eates en toute s\u00e9curit\u00e9 ou sans crainte de la r\u00e9action qu\u2019ils pourraient recevoir. Il faut \u00eatre vuln\u00e9rable pour \u00eatre honn\u00eate et communiquer des limites claires signifie que quelqu\u2019un est capable de vous faire confiance sur la fa\u00e7on dont il se sent vraiment.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n <\/span><\/p>\n [\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.19.4″ _module_preset=”default” text_text_color=”#00A383″ link_font=”||||on|||#00A383|” header_2_text_color=”#FFFDFA” header_3_text_color=”#FFFDFA” background_color=”#DAE7E3″ width=”100%” max_width=”100%” max_width_tablet=”100%” max_width_phone=”” max_width_last_edited=”on|phone” module_alignment=”left” min_height=”6px” custom_margin=”|14px|25px||false|false” custom_padding=”35px|30px|35px|30px|true|true” border_radii=”on|8px|8px|8px|8px” locked=”off” global_colors_info=”{}”]<\/p>\n Plus nous parlons du consentement et l\u2019int\u00e9grons dans nos conversations cochonnes, plus nous pouvons tirer plaisir et satisfaction de nos rencontres sexuelles. Cela inclut les conversations sur le d\u00e9pistage des IST, l\u2019utilisation de protection, le lubrifiant, la contraception, l\u2019exploration des courbes, ce qui fait du bien et ce qui ne le fait pas ! Cela peut \u00e9galement ressembler \u00e0 un accord sur les moyens de communiquer le consentement lorsque la verbalisation n\u2019est pas possible.\u00a0<\/span><\/b><\/p>\n Exemples\u00a0: \u00ab\u00a0Je pense que j\u2019appr\u00e9cierais davantage cela si nous utilisions un pr\u00e9servatif\/barrage dentaire\u00a0\u00bb \u00ab\u00a0J\u2019ai toujours voulu essayer... mais trouvons d\u2019abord un mot de s\u00e9curit\u00e9\u00a0\u00bb\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n Lisez les <\/span>\u00ab\u00a07 fa\u00e7ons chaudes de pratiquer le consentement positif\u00a0\u00bb<\/span><\/a> de Bustle pour plus d\u2019id\u00e9es et de bonnes pratiques.\u00a0 <\/span><\/p>\n CATIE a cr\u00e9\u00e9 un libre<\/span> un guide gratuit sur le sexe s\u00e9curitaire <\/span><\/a>qui fournit plus d\u2019information, explore des conseils pratiques et d\u00e9stigmatise les pratiques sexuelles s\u00e9curitaires.<\/span><\/b><\/p>\n [\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.19.4″ _module_preset=”default” text_text_color=”#00A383″ link_font=”||||on|||#FFFDFA|” link_text_color=”#FFFDFA” header_2_text_color=”#FFFDFA” header_3_text_color=”#FFFDFA” background_color=”#DAE7E3″ width=”100%” max_width=”100%” max_width_tablet=”100%” max_width_phone=”” max_width_last_edited=”on|phone” module_alignment=”left” min_height=”6px” custom_margin=”|14px|25px||false|false” custom_padding=”35px|30px|35px|30px|true|true” border_radii=”on|8px|8px|8px|8px” locked=”off” global_colors_info=”{}”]<\/p>\n Violating consent has many forms and there can be instances where a loved one, friend, classmate, coworker, stranger or family member needs a reminder about what consent is. If you witness someone dismissing a person\u2019s rejection or not respecting their personal boundaries, touching them without explicit consent, or clearly making them feel uncomfortable – don\u2019t be afraid to intervene or tell someone about it who can if you do not feel safe doing so. This is how we keep each other safe. <\/span><\/p>\n [\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.19.4″ _module_preset=”default” text_text_color=”#00A383″ link_font=”||||on|||#00A383|” header_2_text_color=”#FFFDFA” header_3_text_color=”#FFFDFA” background_color=”#DAE7E3″ width=”100%” max_width=”100%” max_width_tablet=”100%” max_width_phone=”” max_width_last_edited=”on|phone” module_alignment=”left” min_height=”6px” custom_margin=”|14px|25px||false|false” custom_padding=”35px|30px|35px|30px|true|true” border_radii=”on|8px|8px|8px|8px” locked=”off” global_colors_info=”{}”]<\/p>\n <\/b>If someone assaults you, betrays your trust, and\/or violates your consent, it is never your fault. Period. A culture that silences victims is incredibly dangerous and isolating, even if the person being held accountable for causing harm insists that they haven\u2019t done anything wrong. The following article discusses how to counter this in more detail: <\/span>Taking the first step: suggestions to people called out for abusive behavior <\/span><\/a><\/p>\n [\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ custom_padding_last_edited=”on|phone” prev_background_color=”#FFFDFA” next_background_color=”#FFFDFA” _builder_version=”4.19.4″ _module_preset=”default” background_color=”#00a383″ module_alignment=”center” min_height=”938.5px” custom_padding=”125px||0px||false|false” custom_padding_tablet=”” custom_padding_phone=”75px||75px||false|false” top_divider_style=”wave” top_divider_height_tablet=”” top_divider_height_phone=”50px” top_divider_height_last_edited=”on|phone” bottom_divider_style=”wave” bottom_divider_height_tablet=”” bottom_divider_height_phone=”50px” bottom_divider_height_last_edited=”on|phone” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_row column_structure=”1_2,1_2″ _builder_version=”4.16″ _module_preset=”default” min_height=”371.2px” custom_margin=”|auto|-82px|auto||” custom_padding=”0px||0px|||” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_column type=”1_2″ _builder_version=”4.16″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.19.4″ _module_preset=”default” link_font=”Roboto|500|||on|||#DAE7E3|” link_text_color=”#FFFFFF” locked=”off” global_colors_info=”{}”]<\/p>\n Reproductive autonomy is about having power and control to make personal decisions related to birth control, pregnancy, abortion, and childbearing that is free from coercion, manipulation, or decisive influence by systemic barriers (unaffordable child care, stable housing, access to food etc.). <\/span><\/p>\n This includes a capacity to express and fulfil desires around having children or not, deciding if and when you will become pregnant, whether or when you want to use contraception and which method to use, and whether or not you want to continue a pregnancy or have an abortion. Your body belongs to you \u2013 these decisions are yours and yours only. <\/span><\/p>\n Reproductive coercion, although encompassing a spectrum of behaviours and institutional failures, is grounded in violating a person\u2019s reproductive autonomy.<\/span><\/p>\n [\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.19.4″ _module_preset=”default” locked=”off” global_colors_info=”{}”]<\/p>\n Active consent also applies to the way we affirm and support the reproductive autonomy of our loved ones, family members, friends, and community.\u00a0<\/span><\/b><\/span><\/p>\n Decisions around contraception use or lack of use, safer sex practices, pregnancy, abortion, and family planning rely on consent. Just like sex, continuing with a pregnancy or not requires an affirmative, conscious, voluntary, honest, and ongoing decision made by the person with the uterus. This decision is never fixed, implied, or owed to anyone for any reason. <\/span><\/p>\n Respecting boundaries and choices around reproductive healthcare is how we can show care for one another and make all of our relationships feel safe.<\/span><\/p>\n [\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=”1_2″ _builder_version=”4.16″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_image src=”https:\/\/ppottawa.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/7.png” title_text=”7″ _builder_version=”4.19.4″ _module_preset=”default” transform_scale=”114%|114%” transform_translate=”28px|37px” global_colors_info=”{}”][\/et_pb_image][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ custom_padding_last_edited=”on|phone” _builder_version=”4.19.4″ _module_preset=”default” background_color=”#FFFDFA” module_alignment=”center” min_height=”752.8px” custom_margin=”-12px||-61px|||” custom_padding=”50px||50px||true|false” custom_padding_tablet=”” custom_padding_phone=”” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_row _builder_version=”4.19.4″ _module_preset=”default” custom_padding=”1px|0px|0px|||” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”4.19.4″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.19.4″ _module_preset=”default” text_text_color=”#00A383″ link_font=”||||on|||#00A383|” header_2_text_color=”#FFFDFA” header_3_text_color=”#FFFDFA” background_color=”#DAE7E3″ width=”100%” max_width=”100%” max_width_tablet=”100%” max_width_phone=”” max_width_last_edited=”on|phone” module_alignment=”left” min_height=”6px” custom_margin=”|14px|25px||false|false” custom_padding=”35px|30px|35px|30px|true|true” border_radii=”on|8px|8px|8px|8px” locked=”off” global_colors_info=”{}”]<\/p>\n Whether you are a person with a vulva, penis, ovaries, testicles, or someone who may encompass a variation in sex characteristics, many people prefer the physical sensation of sex without using a condom, dental dam, or other form of external barrier. A decision to go without any form of barrier method must be made by all people involved in the sexual activity and requires active and ongoing consent.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n For example, if you prefer sex without using a condom, and your partner only agrees to sex while using one, if you take the condom off secretly, don\u2019t use one despite their wishes, or pressure them into agreeing not to use one, this is coercion and can cause a lot of harm. All sex comes with a certain amount of risk, but using birth control or a method of protection can reduce the risk of pregnancy and STIs. If someone feels more comfortable to use protection every time – respect this or don\u2019t have sex.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n If you decide with a partner to go without using a form of protection or method of contraception, there are a couple things you can discuss beforehand to reduce certain forms of risk and ultimately make it a more <\/span>comfortable and fulfilling experience for everyone involved:<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n [\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row column_structure=”1_2,1_2″ _builder_version=”4.19.4″ _module_preset=”default” custom_padding=”0px|||||” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_column type=”1_2″ _builder_version=”4.19.4″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.19.4″ _module_preset=”default” text_text_color=”#00A383″ link_font=”||||on|||#00A383|” header_2_text_color=”#FFFDFA” header_3_text_color=”#FFFDFA” background_color=”#DAE7E3″ width=”100%” max_width=”100%” max_width_tablet=”100%” max_width_phone=”” max_width_last_edited=”on|phone” module_alignment=”left” min_height=”6px” custom_margin=”|14px|25px||false|false” custom_padding=”35px|30px|35px|30px|true|true” border_radii=”on|8px|8px|8px|8px” locked=”off” global_colors_info=”{}”]<\/p>\n Be open<\/b> about your current sexual preferences or other intimate relationships. If you are having sex with multiple people there is no shame in that at all! Being honest can give all partners the information needed to make informed decisions that respect everyone\u2019s boundaries, especially when not using protection. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n [\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.19.4″ _module_preset=”default” text_text_color=”#00A383″ link_font=”||||on|||#00A383|” header_2_text_color=”#FFFDFA” header_3_text_color=”#FFFDFA” background_color=”#DAE7E3″ width=”100%” max_width=”100%” max_width_tablet=”100%” max_width_phone=”” max_width_last_edited=”on|phone” module_alignment=”left” min_height=”6px” custom_margin=”|14px|25px||false|false” custom_padding=”35px|30px|35px|30px|true|true” border_radii=”on|8px|8px|8px|8px” locked=”off” global_colors_info=”{}”]<\/p>\n Get tested.<\/b> STI stands for \u201csexually transmitted infection\u201d and these can be passed through blood, vaginal fluid, semen, rectal fluid, and breastmilk\/ chestmilk. Preventing STIs is one of the main reasons people choose to use internal or external condoms and dental dams. If making a shared decision not to use one, a good general rule is to get tested every time you switch partners and before engaging in sex with your new boo. If you are with the same partner for a long time and don\u2019t have any concerns around sharing needles or tattooing equipment, getting tested every year is another great rule of thumb. It\u2019s important that you don\u2019t wait until you see or experience symptoms of an STI because many will not cause symptoms but can still be passed on, even without showing any signs of infection. Most STIs can be treated or cured with medicine before they cause long-term harm!<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n [\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=”1_2″ _builder_version=”4.19.4″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.19.4″ _module_preset=”default” text_text_color=”#00A383″ link_font=”||||on|||#00A383|” header_2_text_color=”#FFFDFA” header_3_text_color=”#FFFDFA” background_color=”#DAE7E3″ width=”100%” max_width=”100%” max_width_tablet=”100%” max_width_phone=”” max_width_last_edited=”on|phone” module_alignment=”left” min_height=”6px” custom_margin=”|14px|25px||false|false” custom_padding=”48px|30px|48px|30px|true|true” border_radii=”on|8px|8px|8px|8px” locked=”off” global_colors_info=”{}”]<\/p>\n Picking a different form of contraception. <\/b>If deciding not to use an external barrier method, you can always discuss other methods of birth control to prevent pregnancy. PPO has developed a <\/span>webpage<\/a> all about contraception to bring you peace of mind and explore other options for protection (e.g hormonal birth control pills, IUDs, implants, the patch, a vasectomy etc.).<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n *PPO has created a <\/span>website<\/span><\/a> dedicated to STIs, testing, and how to bring these topics up with a potential partner.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n [\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ custom_padding_last_edited=”on|phone” prev_background_color=”#FFFDFA” next_background_color=”#FFFDFA” _builder_version=”4.19.4″ _module_preset=”default” background_color=”#00a383″ module_alignment=”center” min_height=”1185.5px” custom_margin=”1px|||||” custom_padding=”179px||0px||false|false” custom_padding_tablet=”” custom_padding_phone=”75px||75px||false|false” top_divider_style=”wave” top_divider_height_tablet=”” top_divider_height_phone=”50px” top_divider_height_last_edited=”on|phone” bottom_divider_style=”wave” bottom_divider_height_tablet=”” bottom_divider_height_phone=”50px” bottom_divider_height_last_edited=”on|phone” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_row column_structure=”1_2,1_2″ _builder_version=”4.16″ _module_preset=”default” min_height=”350.2px” custom_margin=”|auto|-84px|auto||” custom_padding=”0px||13px|||” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_column type=”1_2″ _builder_version=”4.16″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.19.4″ _module_preset=”default” text_text_color=”#FFFFFF” link_font=”Roboto|500|||on|||#DAE7E3|” link_text_color=”#FFFFFF” locked=”off” global_colors_info=”{}”]<\/p>\n Is it my body? If the answer is no, this is not your decision to make.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n There are many factors that may influence your perspective on a reproductive decision including whether or not someone else should continue with a pregnancy or have an abortion.<\/span><\/p>\n This may include:<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n Subjective religious or spiritual views\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n <\/span>Assumptions and common myths about abortion<\/b><\/span><\/b><\/span><\/p>\n <\/b><\/span><\/p>\n [\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=”1_2″ _builder_version=”4.16″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.19.4″ _module_preset=”default” text_text_color=”#FFFFFF” link_font=”Roboto|500|||on|||#DAE7E3|” link_text_color=”#FFFFFF” locked=”off” global_colors_info=”{}”]<\/p>\n Gender roles, internalized stigma, or personal desires\u00a0<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n Cultural values\u00a0<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n [\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row _builder_version=”4.16″ _module_preset=”default” min_height=”350.2px” custom_margin=”|auto|-184px|auto||” custom_padding=”0px||0px|||” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”4.16″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.19.4″ _module_preset=”default” link_font=”Roboto|500|||on|||#DAE7E3|” link_text_color=”#FFFFFF” locked=”off” global_colors_info=”{}”]<\/p>\n Ultimately, abortions are always a life-saving health procedure, regardless of the situation that led to the decision. There is also no linear model for what pregnancy, parenting, or care-giving should look like! Based on our own experiences, social contexts, values, opinions, and upbringing, respecting the reproductive autonomy of a loved one is not always the easy option. It can require us to unlearn harmful assumptions, biases, misinformation, and judgements that have a lot of power to cause harm. 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It is important to acknowledge when these power dynamics become harmful. Being human is beautifully complex and we all carry personal wounds that can show up in our personal relationships. 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If this is you, please seek therapy, treatment, or support through accountability groups such as <\/span>COSA Ottawa<\/span><\/a><\/p>\nQu\u2019est-ce que le consentement sexuel actif ?\u00a0<\/b><\/span><\/h1>\n
Le consentement actif n\u2019est PAS\u00a0:<\/b><\/span><\/h3>\n
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Comment pouvons-nous favoriser une culture de consentement ?<\/h1>\n
1. <\/b>Comprendre le consentement actif<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n
2. Normalisation du consentement<\/span><\/h2>\n
3. Community care and intervention\u00a0<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n
4. Collectively counter victim-blaming and\/or shaming<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n
Qu\u2019est-ce que l\u2019autonomie reproductive ?<\/b><\/span><\/h3>\n
Why is consent and reproductive autonomy important to consider when it comes to birth control methods and\/or family planning?<\/b><\/span><\/h3>\n
I don\u2019t necessarily want children, but sex feels better without using protection.\u00a0<\/b><\/span><\/h3>\n
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What if I don\u2019t agree with a reproductive decision someone in my life is making?\u00a0<\/span><\/b><\/span><\/h3>\n
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Can I reflect on any power dynamics within my relationships?<\/b><\/span><\/h3>\n
Do I prioritize my reproductive desires and\/or pleasure above that of my partner\/s? Why or why not?<\/strong><\/h3>\n
Is my relationship built on mutual and equal respect?\u00a0<\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n
Do I prioritize consent around sex, decisions around whether or not to use birth control or protection, and discussions around family planning?\u00a0<\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n
Do I currently support and affirm my partner\u2019s reproductive autonomy?\u00a0<\/strong><\/h3>\n
Have I ever thought about impregnating someone so they would be indefinitely tied to my relationship?\u00a0<\/strong><\/h3>\n
Do I desire control over my partner\/s and why might this be the case?\u00a0<\/strong><\/h3>\n
How can my biases around sex work cause harm? <\/b><\/span><\/h3>\n
I know I have caused harm in a relationship or have been called-in for my behaviour. Now what?\u00a0<\/b><\/span><\/h3>\n